Wednesday, January 5, 2011

which one hurts the most??


I was blog hopping on my off period, trying to find anything concerning our favorite couple,
when I ran into a translated tweet from Hwangbo on Miss Auditor's blog.

 
사랑하는거랑 이별하는거랑 둘중 뭐가 더 아플것같나여? 몇일전부터 계속 궁금해가지구...
translation by lvk2010:
i have been curious for few days…which one hurts the most...being in love or ending the love... 
sourcehwangbo's twitter
credit: translation by lvk2010

I wonder what's on her mind and if she found the answer...
For myself, I remember how heart broken I was 
when my best friend broke up w/me after 4 years of being together.
It was tough for me then but now I wonder if it was much harder for him, 
being responsible for breaking the heart of someone you care about but no longer love.

32 comments:

Anonymous said...

Thanks meme!Is she talking to herself?or other person matter,I meant her friend that having trouble in relationship?Personally,I think is her friend,the couple seems very lovely and sturdy to me recently!

Anonymous said...

Generally speaking, definitely the ending love is the more painful than being in love. Nevertheless, her case is a bit different because she is in love w/ a young, handsome, & popular Idol w/ so many fans. To love the person, she needs to give up so many things w/ abundance patience & waiting so many years to marry him. That might cause her more painful than the ending love. That is my thinking. Justin.

Anonymous said...

Hi #1, The tone of her written Korean looks like someone else instead of her. Justin.

lk said...

hi Justin,#1 is me lk,I think so too!

Anonymous said...

I think it is both painful if it means being in love to a person who doesn't love you back and ending the love for the other person love is no longer there.

I'm hoping though that HB is not referring to herself.

LvKprogram said...

@Justin...HB's manager tweeted her back with more in depth. Can you translate to us... You are so much better with this than me!

Liliana said...

I think either way the hurt is the same!

Anonymous said...

Hwangbo, you’d better care him first cause you had made many mistake to him . Nobody can give you so many love unless Yunho. you should “keep your head down” only for him:)
we hope you are smart lady in lovely. Nobody is better than Yunho and don’t miss him and lost yourself please!
go head! and tell him you love him please! we all want you and he get marry in fact and have kid as soon as possible. Give your care for him that is big power for his career. He is so far so tired.

Anonymous said...

Anon above: you're not welcome here. Please go away!!!

Anonymous said...

So!That was her friend then!
"Actually I have felt love. Beyond thinking many people said love. Even though knowing pain, again
want to love. Thus, don't be afraid, let's love!!"
Don't be afraid and want to love,let's love,haha!She is ok and the couple are ok!Only the person who been in love can be brave to say so!

And the anon #8,are you lost?I guess you're entering the wrong site,this is Ssangchu Heaven!

Ssangchudream said...

@Anon #3 : I'm a little bit confused on your comment. Who is Hwangbo hurting exactly? And why is Yunho involved? Are you in right place?

Anonymous said...

Oh!I can't count,I meant the comment #8!

Anonymous said...

being in love will hurt you but atleast you know for a fact that's the feeling's still there.. ending the love will hurt coz you have to give up something you wish will be forever...

just my 2cents..

purple-chagi

Anonymous said...

The above anon # 8.
Hey you! You came to cbox & wanted to get trans. Next time, if you want to get trans, put your name on the cbox instead of the anon. You're a very much creep person I have faced w/. You made the lists of males for HB and talks about Yunho. You looks like one of PKers who are very much foolish people like the dumb JSM. Don't you know this place is for HJ & HB not Yunho. Get out of here!! You actions like a snake that is a very much bad person. God is over you & your actions. God'll pherish you, so behave yourself. Justin.

Anonymous said...

The above anon # 8.
Hey you! You came to cbox & wanted to get trans. Next time, if you want to get trans, put your name on the cbox instead of the anon. You're a very much creep person I have faced w/. You made the lists of males for HB and talks about Yunho. You looks like one of PKers who are very much foolish people like the dumb JSM. Don't you know this place is for HJ & HB not Yunho. Get out of here!! You actions like a snake that is a very much bad person. God is over you & your actions. God'll pherish you, so behave yourself. Justin.

Anonymous said...

I love Yunho a lot but commenter #8 made me laugh out loud. On the other hand, I like your analysis here, Justin. I was pondering upon HB's quote too. Why would it be difficult for her to decide which would be more painful? Shouldn't ending a love be far more difficult? Being in love was hard for her. In regards to her past relationship, maybe she was cheated on but stayed because she was in love with him? Anyway, I like Justin's conclusion far better.

Anonymous said...

why does it have to get so confrontational sometimes. Let's all be polite to one another. I honestly believe that anon#8 has difficulty expressing how she feels thru her language barrier. If not then lets be the better then to call people out. I think it's wrong when you talk about gods way and then turn around and call people dumb Justin. I think everyone needs to be more mature in these matters.

Ssangchudream said...

To anon above me: Your comment is ACE! Have an internet cookie.

...Although upon reflection, I really hope my earlier comment wasn't confrontational either =/. I was/am genuinely curious about anon #8's comment.

GaGa said...

I had a hard time answering her question too!

Being in love ...... could be painful......

Ending love ..... could be not as painful but for a new start.....

Really, Hye Jung's words always have deep meaning! Her words keep me thinking!!

At the end, all I wish for is,
"I wish your love is always Happy!!"

kiani said...

I'm getting confused with all the anon's, lol.
"Which one hurts the most, being in love or ending the love" hmmm...
If Hb's referring to herself, we all know she experienced love. But, being in love can also be a different experience for each person you fall in love with. And if you end the love, I don't think it hurts you as much as the other person, of course, this is my POV.
..LOL, I think we already decided from before, Changmin was SH's and Uknow is mine, sorry gals, xDD.

Anonymous said...

been away for a while and i missed so many things here already! belated happy new year to all of you!

@ssangchudream, great to know that you are back, i miss your blog and i thought it's gone forever.

kikay

Anonymous said...

#8 Anon=ACE. Oh!!! you're ACE. I know you that you are the foolish & dummy JSM fan. I read & saw you 1000 times everywhere. You came to me and asked to translate HB's twitty sentence, wrote the male lists, and your comment about Yunho. How dare are you coming here & writing about Yunho here. Do you have a mind? You need to grow up to be an adult. Your comments on the Internet were all so immature & stupid things you wrote about. Behave yourself what you're doing right now. Sooner or later you'll be regrecting what you'r doing. God will punish your heart & your actions. DO NOT COME HERE ANYMORE. Understand!!!! ACE. Do it good work for GOD instead of bad things in the new year. I'm praying for you to change your heart. Justin.

UnTouch@bLe ^guRL said...

being in love is very painful~
hmm...i guess that's not real love then for me..if it hurts~ kkk...anyway...being in love can make ur hurt n happy at the same time! is it? hmm...anyway....i still believe!!! to the world!!!! HB fighting!!!!!

J.J. said...

Just wanted to say, no ship bashing.
Anon above (I'm not even going to bother counting), who bashed JSM, thank you for your opinion, but please don't judge a person by a character they played in a drama. They are called actors/actresses for a reason.

As for Hwangbo's tweet, I think that it hurts either way. Love is an emotion that makes you uncomfortable--not in a negative way, but in an ambivalent way. Love makes you transcend yourself, which is why it's uncomfortable, because you care for the wellbeing of someone other than yourself. So whether you're IN love and care so much for the other person and they don't reciprocate it, or when you no longer love someone the same way, but they still love you it's hard. But love is great in the way that when you realize you've stretched the limits of your own humanity for someone else, you'll always learn a new lesson about yourself and the other person.

<3

Yeah, way to get too deep in the morning. LOL

Anonymous said...

Look at this video's comment. The same comment put it in by the same person w/ #8 anon = ACE. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iaE-q_iO5Eo&feature=related
It is exactly the same comment. Justin.

Anonymous said...

Look at this video's comment. The same comment put it in by the same person w/ #8 anon = ACE. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iaE-q_iO5Eo&feature=related
It is exactly the same comment. Justin.

Anonymous said...

I'm sorry but I think both that anon and Justin need to chill. I think it's a bit ironic that Justin is telling others to be an adult and mature when I often find most of her comments swaying to the overzealous-bashing category too. Both shouldn't be bashing people and/or overreact like that...just a simple "you're in the wrong place" should suffice. Anyway, we should all remember that English might not be everyone's first language, so I just hope that it was more of not being able to express ourselves correctly rather then an intentional trolling. I just want us all to get along with each other for our own sakes but also so that it can be a reflection of the positive influence from our beloved couple.

Anyway, I think HB is thinking these things because of a friend's situation, a movie or book she is reading. That's one of the things I like about HB and HJ...they often have very insightful and deep thoughts. I also don't think she would write something super personal on a public space (be it twitter, cyworld etc) unless it was a reflection from a waaaay past event or something that she happened to remember and wanted people's opinions, so people shouldn't jump the gun at everything she says too XD (thankfully I haven't read them much here, but I've seen some elsewhere that made me go "...are you serious? calm down yo" hahaha)

J.J. said...

Thank you anon above.
Ships shouldn't be a serious thing. It's not like HB or HJ's pulling the strings of our lives.

Anonymous said...

depending on the case. It is subjective.
Being in love or ending the love, it boils down to reason. Weigh what leaves the more bitter taste.LoL

Anonymous said...

To love someone is not necessarily to possess .Sometimes because we love someone, we have to let him go.It's painful definitely but if he is really in love with us deeply,he will by all means grips you up tightly.

Anonymous said...

Thanks you for comments. I'm not an over-jealous fan. I'm depend upon giving critics how JSM acted in the public eyes. HJ was really uncomfortable when JSM was initiated unnecessary skin-ships when camara was not running consistently. HJ was considered her only a co-worker; however, she was over the moon as a HJ as her lover in real life. She could not distinguish from the real life to acting life. She acted unprofessionally on the public eyes. That cause so many people against her. Her behavior was not acceptable on the public eyes. She is a brand new girl in showbiz, but she tried to seduce HJ. She wore the shortest skirt on Youtube prom and walked on the steps in front of HJ. People almost saw her dirty part. If she wants to get good comments, she needs to behave well in the public eyes. There are reasons why she got so bad comments. Justin.

Anonymous said...

So, the tweet is really her? Or someone else asking her the question?


If it's her, why she tweeted like this? Some thing happened to her love life that we don't know?