Monday, November 22, 2010

Kim Hyunjoong Wonders, "Why do people like me?"

Source: http://www.koreastardaily.com/tc/news/5674 + ode

Kim Hyun-joong took on an interview with Korea Star Daily last week… “Why do people like me? Yeah thats right, why do they like a person like me?”

Can you actually believe Kim Hyunjoong doesn’t know why people like him? In dramas, Kim Hyunjoong always appear as the soft guy, but in reality, he’s actually quite stiffened in personality. Exactly because of that, Kim Hyunjoong has had many bitter-sour love experiences, “I’m rather stiffened, and though I treat my girlfriend nice, I don’t tend to express myself during relationships, that’s why I often get dumped in the end”.

Who could have expected Kim Hyunjoong to be dumped? He continued to add that he “has many experiences of being rejected by girls after confessing. I always get dumped by my girlfriend after dating. Probably she finds no interest in dating me. As compared to opposite genders, I like to meet my friends more, so I guess I tend to neglect my girlfriend more. I can’t choose between friends and lover, but I do seem to enjoy being with my friends more, and times spent together is long too. But, I still treat my girlfriend well when I’m with her”.

Kim Hyunjoong is a man of few words, but is also honest and straight. As soon as he opens his mouth, he’ll speak whatever’s at the bottom of his heart – this, is Kim Hyunjoong’s charm. He also answered frankly when asked about love, “If I’m in a relationship, I don’t intend to be open about this, because this girl might be veiled with the title like ‘oh she’s who and who’s girl’; this is very disrespectful towards the girl, I feel. This might be a torture for the girl, so I won’t want to be public about it”.

He expressed that he’s dated showbiz people, and also non-showbiz people. He divulged his thoughts for destiny, “I believe in love at first sight, and also had such experiences. She just greeted me once only, and then I already fell deep in. I like frank people, I don’t know how to deal with too womenly or meticulous people, so I enjoy dating straight and frank people. I also feel kinda awkward towards junior girls who call me oppa. The girls I dated before is quite different from my ideal type, so far, I had only dated my ideal kind of woman – once”.

13 comments:

Anonymous said...

Is this a 4D question to himself? xDD. Well i would say his good looks. But then, I guess looks aren't everything to some girls, or should I say woman, as it seems he prefers nuna's, cuz he says he feels awkward when his juniors call him oppa. But uhmm..at least he knows why his dates dump him. Poor Hyung, need to start treating dates better, we all like to be pampered and given stars,xDD.

miz lyn said...

“If I’m in a relationship, I don’t intend to be open about this, because this girl might be veiled with the title like ‘oh she’s who and who’s girl’; this is very disrespectful towards the girl, I feel. This might be a torture for the girl, so I won’t want to be public about it”.

omg...did all of you remember how hyun joong protect buin at wgm...i hope it means to hwangbo...!!!

Anonymous said...

..coz you're you.

Anonymous said...

@miz lyn, didn't he also say in some interview along time ago, that he would spread rumors about his girlfriend, so people would know (?)
something in that line.

Anonymous said...

Lurve at 1st sight? I don't think you can know a person at 1st look and I also dun believe joongbo was a love at 1st sight. It was TIME that makes us see their journey from strangers to "something"... Ish! Ish! His stmts make me bonkers!

fudgeorange said...

Shillang, you're adorkably silly, funny, witty and sweet.

I have to agree with Buin, what makes Shillang extra attractive is his cute sense of humor. :)

Jayne said...

LOL, to be honest, i like how he says everything... Coz for me i would probably spend more time with my friends then my boyfriend. And wouldn't wanna have a whole bunch of people knowing i'm someone's girlfriend esp if they are famous... (if i was KHJ's i think i would get killed the next day XD by his millions of girl fans )
But for Love at first sight, haha it just makes me wonder who it is XD coz i dun believe in those until it actually happen to me.

What's the bad thing about KHJ is that, he can be prettier then YOU! XD haha.

Anonymous said...

The girls I dated before is quite different from my ideal type, so far, I had only dated my ideal kind of woman – once

I wonder who that woman was...if that is Buin I will feel happy and at the same time sad...

Lil' Sue said...

Huhuhuhu....

The girls I dated before is quite different from my ideal type, so far, I had only dated my ideal kind of woman – once

If this is Buin...it's a mixture of feelings....(T_T)...

I hope ur love always happy!!!

Anonymous said...

"The girls I dated before is quite different from my ideal type, so far, I had only dated my ideal kind of woman – once”
Well, you can interpret this positively if you don't think of the word "once" to mean something that's happened in the past but that there's only been one woman he has dated (and perhaps currently dating) who is of his type. Ne?

Anonymous said...

Honestly, dear fellow Joongboers, it's hard for me to take the dating comments terribly seriously. They seem very much in his 4D character...his imagination giving more color to events than maybe was really there. Girlfriends...plural??? Like...when!!! He's been falling over half dead for years from overwork, as we have all seen. The eye bags, the falling asleep everywhere, the collapses. When could he ever meet girls...even show biz girls...or have the time to go out with them...like ever! Especially long enough to make enough relationship that you could get dumped from it. I can't help thinking he's met a girl or two, and liked one or two, maybe got to squeeze out a conversation on the sidelines before getting yanked back into his schedule. What girl is going to try to break through that big wall...I guess you could call that getting dumped. I think thats why buin was Gods gift. The WGM schedule gave opportunity, and she is his perfect comfortable type, was older enough to draw him out of his inexperienced shell, and so generous to really work hard to understand to his inner thoughts and take care of him body and spirit. Whoever he meets in future will have Buin's Gold Standard to live up to.

Anonymous said...

anon#7...i so agree with your comment...






mamu57

Anonymous said...

You know that might be refer to WGM real filming situations, but they divoced on WGM TV. However, they are dating on real by secretly ways. Thus, I think he said he dated for 5months on WGM.